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Trusting People too easily


You are not alone in this strange world who is bearing a syndrome of trusting people so quickly. It is not much distinctive from Stockholm syndrome, except the fact that you don't have any opinion about the other person. It will be your first week in college, and you will meet someone. You will think you are 'vibing' with them because everyone else does too. 

This situation occurs when You think You know them but actually, You don't. Sometimes, you just sit down and think, how can you be so stupid? And sometimes be like, dude!!, They are my friend and har ek friend kameena hota hai,  so you shouldn't behave like this.
It can be that best friend who leaked all your secrets to someone else. It can be your friend who made fun of your weaknesses behind your back. The fact is that you were with them whenever they needed you, but there is no return policy. The point is, you trusted them enough to tell them things, which were your weakness, and this bit you in the back.

How did you even think for a moment that they were your friend and not machines or your personal diary whom you trusted blindly? And later, you will realize that "you judge people terribly". You can't do much in this situation except experiencing the harsh reality of this world. You opened the book of your life in front of them.

You think again and again about the mistake you made. You thought everyone has a good heart just because you have. Sooner or later, you will realize that you can't let others walk all over you. Listen to your dad when he says, "don't trust people too easily". You will start living your life with you. And that will be the moment when you will find a new way to live and enjoy your life without being anyone in your life. And maybe, then, everything will be alright.

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