Yes!! Saying 'no' is not that bad. We have always been taught to help someone and not move back because they think you can help them, and that's the biggest compliment anyone can offer to you. We should always be grateful to them. I always obeyed this and kept saying 'yes' . But excess of everything is terrible. Everything in excess is opposed to nature . You feel happy by seeing their grateful faces whenever you help them. But doesn't it mean that you are making them habituated to not work on their own? YES!! Sometimes it does. The thing about being the person who can't say 'no ' is that you are no longer doing someone a favor. They will push it on you like it's your job . And when you say 'no' the first time, you will suddenly feel like you become the bad guy. The fear of losing your friend will stick on your mind, and that will always force you to keep saying 'yes' . Now I am learning to say 'no' , and I am liking the...
Some sweet memories of My Life. A personal Diary.