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Aksar kya hota hai ki kuch logo ka nya nya breakup hota hai aur unse wo ekdum sudden wala loneliness jhela nahi jata. Aur loneliness ki had toh tab paar ho jati hai jab pta chalta hai ki tumhare saamne wale ne nya banda ya bandi pata li hai. Dil beth sa jata hai. Na toh padhai me man lagta hai aur na hi kuch aur karne me. haina! Toh uss situation me log dhundte hai ek kandha. han, ek shoulder jo tumhe sahara de uss situation me, yha tk koi dikkat nahi hai, sb kuch theek chal rha hota hai, lekin dikkat tab aati hai jab ek person usme pyaar dhundh le, haan, kuch feelings udhar se aayi, kuch feelings idhar se (idhar se toh aayengi hi, recently breakup hua hai, to kahi toh feelings lagani pdegi). Aur dono chutiye isko pyaar samajh bethte hai. Abhi kuch din pahle ek dost bta rha tha ki uski ek dost ne apni relationship se get over karne k liye dusri relationship start kar di. Aur hua yun ki since nyi relationship to sirf purani wali ko bhulane k liye thi, toh us chakkar me ek nyi relationsh...

"Be positive yaar! Everything happens for a reason." Somebody said this to me when my great-grandmother passed away. (koi sense hai iss baat ki?🙂) I am talking about toxic positivity . Toxic positivity usually isn't intended to cause harm, but it dismisses emotions instead of affirming them. Often it happens in a situation when we want to help but don't know what to say to express it. I think it has increased during the pandemic hence now it is a topic we should focus on. Take toxic positivity as a false reassurance. Sometimes, people say no matter how dire or difficult a situation is, you should maintain a positive mindset. The "Good vibes only" mindset, you know! Yes, it's true that having a positive mindset on life is good for your mental well-being. But you should also know that life isn't always positive. Everyone in this world deal with painful emotions and experiences!! Sticky note pe ye mene nahi likha, photo google se uthayi hai🙈 Once...

What if you get rejected?? This was the question that was asked to me during the final round of an interview. But before going that, do you ever think that interviews are 70 % mind games ?  From predicting the interviewer's aspect while asking questions to setting up the answer according to which he wants to hear; everything is a mind game🧠. To even which question should come after, It's always mind over knowledge at all times. AND if you break the mind, you break the opponent . HRs have already learned this and they employ it as well on each and every candidate. until they face the ONE. The ONE who gets selected. During an interview, most people think that the interviewer is asking them the questions and they are simply giving the answers😐. But in fact, you are the one who decides which question should come next. You just need to read the interviewer's mind and act accordingly. And within minutes, ssssshhh, the interviewer is under your control . Don't you believ...

After a long week, your exams are over. You're mindlessly scrolling your insta feed, and suddenly, you stop. You see a post of someone who was once really, really close to you. Now you start to scroll your memories with that person, but you realize that you have just grown apart. You remember how you used to do all bakchodis together. You just laugh at it and keep scrolling your memories. That one song always sticks with that person, and you are about to fall into nostalgia. But suddenly, this nostalgia turns into a sense of sadness. Try to remember the last time you saw them? How they used to sound? The last time when were you guys talked normally? There might be some incidents that separated both of you. But wait! you still remember some silly jokes on which you both used to laugh. A slight wave of thoughts comes into your mind saying how much you both knew about each other. Your dreams, your embarrassing moments, your crushes, everything suddenly starts roaming around you. Did y...

  *one day crush, who is often found in marriage ceremonies Dear Unknown, Look! Yrr I don't even know your name. That feeling when I saw you the first time, dancing in a black saree. Believe me, you look so beautiful in that saree and that golden-colored pallu. Your dance was amazing, yrr how can you be so perfect on each song. You were the reason why I was roaming around DJ all the time. I became a caterer just to serve you a sweet si Kaju Katli. Chalo, iss bahane at least I heard your voice and talked to you the first time. Maybe you don't even remember this. But it was precious for me.  I had to come home bcoz of my assignment deadline but I was not gonna sleep without thinking about you. You were running in every corner of my mind.  I came out of my blanket, wore a jacket (winter! uff). And you were the only reason which pulled me back to that marriage ceremony at midnight 1AM. But it was not worthless. Finally, I got a glimpse when you were sitting near the groo...

Bahot achha lagta hai jb bhi koi festival hota hai, ek alag enjoyment and excitement aur vo tab aur bhi badh jati hai jab hamari life me entry hoti hai kisi special person ki. Haan, I am talking about her. Sab kuch double saa ho jata hai, as we are excited for both now. Discussing your plans with her, what you did last year and she will tell you many stories related to this festival from her life and you'll do the same. Andar se ekdum Majnu Bhai wali feeling aa rhi hoti hai "Pyaar bhi naa bahut pyaara hota hai". Haan, to ab wo jayegi shopping krne aur tumhe itni importance degi ki trial room me pic click kr puchegi, "Baby ye wali jyada better hai ki wo?" Aur hum jisne bc aaj tak khud k kapde mummy ki pasand se pehane hai wo apna point of view dene lag jate hai ki "Aap isme jyada achhi lag rhi ho". aur fir mutual discussion k saath madam ji ki shopping hoti hai khatm. Ruko abhi toh aur special feel karana hai bhai, fir ghar jaakar karegi video call aur ...

College life begins. The very first day of college, shyness, and hesitation all around. He came in this world without watching all web series (Will this society accept him?) . He listens to his friends discussing Game of Thrones, Friends, Money Heist, Big Bang theory, etc. etc. That's the time when the first stage of appearing   FOMO . Bro! If you didn't watch Money Heist, you have seen nothing . He doesn't want to spend his 4 years of his college with this Fear of Missing Out. At this moment, an introvert person will always blame to being introverted. But soon, he realizes that it is not that bad. Even the fear of missing out departs from his life within 4-5 months. But he got to know the behavior of the world. An introvert person always thinks to be extrovert because he assumes that extrovert guys are the extraordinarily happy people on the earth. You call him introvert but, I call him a person with exceptional patience in listening to others like his own. He talks...

You are not alone in this strange world who is bearing a syndrome of trusting people so quickly. It is not much distinctive from Stockholm syndrome, except the fact that you don't have any opinion about the other person. It will be your first week in college, and you will meet someone. You will think you are 'vibing' with them because everyone else does too.  This situation occurs when You think You know them but actually, You don't. Sometimes, you just sit down and think, how can you be so stupid? And sometimes be like, dude!!, They are my friend and har ek friend kameena hota hai,   so you shouldn't behave like this. It can be that best friend who leaked all your secrets to someone else. It can be your friend who made fun of your weaknesses behind your back. The fact is that you were with them whenever they needed you, but there is no return policy. The point is, you trusted them enough to tell them things, which were your weakness, and this bit you in the back. H...