That Introvert Guy

College life begins. The very first day of college, shyness, and hesitation all around. He came in this world without watching all web series (Will this society accept him?). He listens to his friends discussing Game of Thrones, Friends, Money Heist, Big Bang theory, etc. etc. That's the time when the first stage of appearing FOMO. Bro! If you didn't watch Money Heist, you have seen nothing. He doesn't want to spend his 4 years of his college with this Fear of Missing Out. At this moment, an introvert person will always blame to being introverted. But soon, he realizes that it is not that bad. Even the fear of missing out departs from his life within 4-5 months. But he got to know the behavior of the world. An introvert person always thinks to be extrovert because he assumes that extrovert guys are the extraordinarily happy people on the earth.

You call him introvert but, I call him a person with exceptional patience in listening to others like his own. He talks so little but so pure that you won't find anything concrete in that at first, but everything he says means a lot. Such a person has excellent observation skills. If he falls in love with you, he will use his observation skills on you. For him, observation is everything he listens to your words, watches your facial expressions, and talks to you only those things you like. Love for him is a responsibility. To fall in love with you is a gift he doesn't need, but he definitely desires. He falls for you for no reason, he likes you despite your faults. He leaves his comfort zone.

Shyness and introversion are two different things. Always keep in mind that an introvert person need not be necessarily shy. "I wanted to be someone else", often said by an introvert person. He always thinks it has to be cool to have that infectious energy that draws people around him. As a guy, he thinks this is the only way to get the ladies (although it isn't). Sometimes it's hard to explain to other people how it actually feels to be an introvert. For him, "Why don't you want to go to this party?" is sometimes difficult to answer. It's not like he doesn't enjoy having fun. He just wants to do it around the right people. He really does like other people; he is not anti-social. Be patient with him. After spending some time with him, you will find a trustworthy person with a deeper meaning and high introspectiveness who believes in "real" friendship.