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That Introvert Guy

College life begins. The very first day of college, shyness, and hesitation all around. He came in this world without watching all web series (Will this society accept him?) . He listens to his friends discussing Game of Thrones, Friends, Money Heist, Big Bang theory, etc. etc. That's the time when the first stage of appearing   FOMO . Bro! If you didn't watch Money Heist, you have seen nothing . He doesn't want to spend his 4 years of his college with this Fear of Missing Out. At this moment, an introvert person will always blame to being introverted. But soon, he realizes that it is not that bad. Even the fear of missing out departs from his life within 4-5 months. But he got to know the behavior of the world. An introvert person always thinks to be extrovert because he assumes that extrovert guys are the extraordinarily happy people on the earth. You call him introvert but, I call him a person with exceptional patience in listening to others like his own. He talks...

Learn to say 'NO'

Yes!! Saying 'no' is not that bad. We have always been taught to help someone and not move back because they think you can help them, and that's the biggest compliment anyone can offer to you. We should always be grateful to them. I always obeyed this and kept saying 'yes' . But excess of everything is terrible. Everything in excess is opposed to nature . You feel happy by seeing their grateful faces whenever you help them. But doesn't it mean that you are making them habituated to not work on their own? YES!! Sometimes it does. The thing about being the person who can't say 'no ' is that you are no longer doing someone a favor. They will push it on you like it's your job . And when you say 'no' the first time, you will suddenly feel like you become the bad guy. The fear of losing your friend will stick on your mind, and that will always force you to keep saying 'yes' . Now I am learning to say 'no' , and I am liking the...

Kota City : Where JEE is in the AIR.

First one is me!! It was April 30th, 2017, and I entered in that so called city of converting dreams to reality, Kota (Rajasthan). One of my school friends was with me. I was very excited about the dazzling of Kota city and a bit worried about my further days in this city. Well, first, let me tell you about my life before coming to Kota. I studied up to 10th class in a small town of Nagaur (Rajasthan). Then I went to Sikar (Another district of Rajasthan) for my further studies. Sikar contains a lot of memories of my life, but I'll share those on some other day. In short, I passed 12th class with a good rank in Rajasthan. So I was telling you about my life at Kota. I, with my friend Ankit, joined Resonance Institute and took a hostel on rent for one year. I don't know why, but my sleeping time increased drastically initially. But I controlled it, and it took 20-25 days to abandon this sleeping schedule and manage a new one. Later some of my school friends also took the train...